Upstage Jam Band 2007 - Spider and the Fly (Video) 1 discussions The Upstage Jam Band: Tony "Boccigalupe" Amato, Ricky DeSarno, Joe Petillo, Sonny Kenn, John Luraschi, and Vini Lopez, playing "The Spider and the Fly" at the Clearwater Festival in Asbury Park, NJ, A.. Tags: Tony Amato Ricky DeSarno Joe Petillo Sonny Kenn John Luraschi Vini Lopez Boccigalupe Clearwater Upstage Jam Band Asbury